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Being towards death

Heed not to the tree-rustling and leaf-lashing rain, Why not stroll along, whistle and sing under its rein. Lighter and better suited than horses are straw sandals and a bamboo staff, Who's afraid? A palm-leaf plaited cape provides enough to misty weather in life sustain. A thorny spring breeze sobers up the spirit, I feel a slight chill, The setting sun over the mountain offers greetings still. Looking back over the bleak passage survived, The return in time Shall not be affected by windswept rain or shine.
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How to see through a person's psychology?

  1. Single girls who often post selfies in their Moments should not be pursued.
  2. WeChat names like "A+Name+Phone Number" are mostly used by real estate agents, salespeople, and merchants. They are afraid that people won't be able to find them.
  3. When meeting someone of the opposite sex for the first time, if their pupils suddenly dilate, it means they are very interested in you or you scared them.
  4. If a girl's Moments are filled with selfies in a 3x3 grid, she is likely a bit narcissistic. These people are extremely eager for praise, so if you want to have a good relationship with her, just compliment her beauty directly.
  5. When someone is looking at their phone and you suddenly glance at them, and they immediately lock their screen and nervously look at you, it means they are looking at something they don't want others to see. If you're interested, you can check their browsing history.
  6. People who can calmly correct their mistakes without changing their expression or heartbeat after being criticized are truly remarkable. On the other hand, those who don't correct their mistakes after being criticized are not remarkable, they are simply fearless.
  7. People who know that double-tapping the screen has a hidden function tend to be thoughtful and observant.
  8. People who reveal everything about themselves as soon as they meet someone, and treat them like a close relative as soon as they become familiar, are not friendly, they are lonely.
  9. The higher your expectations of someone, the greater the disappointment. It's not about lowering your expectations of yourself, but rather lowering your expectations of others and any relationship. I once read a quote online that I strongly agree with. Many couples I know directly or indirectly through my social circle have eventually entered into marriage, but many of them have been unfaithful in their long journey of love. Some stories are understood by everyone, and even covered up for them. Every time I attend a wedding, I see the newlyweds reciting their vows with tears in their eyes, and I have never doubted their sincerity at that moment. But human nature is so deep and complex that after experiencing countless things, I can understand everything but can no longer believe anything. - Xiong Er. Mature people can better understand the baseness and fickleness of human nature, so they have lower expectations of others. I don't doubt your sincerity at this moment, but the road ahead is long, and I dare not be sure that your sincerity can last until the end. Eventually, you will see that every relationship reaches a point of balance. Whether it's love, friendship, or family, it's all the same. The indulgence, love, and care you receive from the other person is like a credit card that you owe, and one day you will have to repay it. So, there's no need to have too high expectations. People are easily disappointing.
  10. People who leave themselves a way out when doing things are meticulous in their thinking. Every seemingly ordinary but internally strong person has a side job supporting their confidence.
  11. If there is someone in your circle who always stands out and behaves differently from the majority, it means that they are not on the same level as you. I know an engineer who retired at a young age and receives a monthly pension of over ten thousand. To pass the time, he works in the property management of his own community just for fun. While others are bored at work, he is happy every day.
  12. No matter what the topic is, they will say, "I have a friend who does xx and now earns how many thousands per month." These people obviously don't have much ability, and their friends have little to do with them.
  13. If you want to see if a family is really well-off, look at the dressing of the female elders in the family. Don't be fooled by someone driving a BMW or Audi, their mother may be sweeping the street on the same street they drove by.
  14. People who post everything about their family, mother-in-law, husband and wife, and private matters in their Moments have no tact.
  15. People who speak logically and have meticulous thinking usually have the habit of reading.
  16. People who constantly post pictures of themselves eating delicious food, visiting scenic spots, and driving BMWs on social media are not really wealthy. People who post one or two artistic sentences in their Moments are not really artistic. These people usually don't read much.
  17. When the brows are furrowed and the lips are tightly pursed, it means a person is controlling their emotions or holding back urine.
  18. When a person is telling a story and their eyes look up to the left, it means they are recalling the details and context. When their eyes look up to the right, it means they are fabricating and making up.
  19. When you are talking to someone and their eyebrows raise, it means they are surprised or questioning what you are saying. Conversely, when they ask you a question and their eyebrows raise, it means they already know the answer to the question and are asking with a purpose.
  20. The reason you feel too much pressure is because you think too much and read too little.
  21. Asymmetrical expressions are mostly intentional. Try opening one corner of your mouth and look at yourself in the mirror. This smile is the forced smile others give you.
  22. In today's society, having connections is very important. Many people write well, have good voices, and draw with great skill, but their works are not seen by anyone because they don't have a good platform to showcase themselves. As the saying goes, "There are many talented horses, but few have a master." As a talented horse, we have to find our own master.
  23. After drinking alcohol, a person's true character and thoughts are most likely to be exposed.
  24. If someone keeps emphasizing to you that "it's not about the money," then it's definitely about the money.
  25. People who flatter and curry favor with others in the workplace, once they have the opportunity to climb up, will show a completely different side. Don't give these people any chance. Once they have a bit of power, they will use it to the extreme.
  26. If a person complains and worries about trivial matters all the time, then they will probably be like this for the rest of their lives because they don't have time to think about bigger things, and their perspective and vision are limited.
  27. If a person, at a young age, constantly talks about their parents' health and life, it means they are much more mature than their peers.
  28. If you want to see if a girl is really refined, don't look at the beautiful pictures in her Moments, don't look at her reading, exercising, and traveling in her Moments. Just look at the photos of her dorm or apartment that others have taken, and you will see everything at a glance. Believe me, some girls may look glamorous, but their dirty shoes and socks can be thrown anywhere.
  29. If you find someone who appears very elegant and talking to them makes you feel pressured, then most likely they are trying to belittle you. If you want to quickly improve your vision, I strongly recommend watching movies. Whether it's domestic or foreign, Italian or Japanese, Oscar-winning or hard-to-find online resources, or documentaries, popular science films, humanistic and ethical films, TED videos, etc., you should watch them all.
  30. If a person is willing to give without expecting anything in return, it means they are seeking fame. As long as you praise them tirelessly, they will give even more.
  31. If an optimistic and cheerful person suddenly becomes silent one day, it means they have experienced something significant. Talk to them more, at least it can make them less pessimistic during the most difficult days of their growth.
  32. If someone you haven't been in contact with for a long time suddenly asks you "Are you there?" on WeChat, it's best not to respond. If you do respond, be prepared to give them money because it's either a wedding gift or a loan.
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