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Heed not to the tree-rustling and leaf-lashing rain, Why not stroll along, whistle and sing under its rein. Lighter and better suited than horses are straw sandals and a bamboo staff, Who's afraid? A palm-leaf plaited cape provides enough to misty weather in life sustain. A thorny spring breeze sobers up the spirit, I feel a slight chill, The setting sun over the mountain offers greetings still. Looking back over the bleak passage survived, The return in time Shall not be affected by windswept rain or shine.
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The 12 Mindsets That Make Men Stronger, Read Patiently, You Will Definitely Gain Something!

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1. Don't worry about what others think, be yourself and be confident. 2. Don't be afraid to socialize and take risks for what you want. 3. Cut your losses and let go of negative situations or people. 4. Don't always be the helpful one, sometimes it can be seen as showing off. 5. Be kind but also stand up for yourself when necessary. 6. Embrace periods of uncertainty and continue to learn and grow. 7. Practice and repetition are key to success in any endeavor. 8. Stay focused on your own path and don't waste time on others' opinions. 9. Let your actions and results speak for themselves. 10. Avoid overthinking and find moments of clarity to improve your well-being. 11. Protect and support your family, their happiness depends on your growth. 12. Trust your own judgment and don't let others' opinions affect your confidence.

  1. Don't be afraid of losing face
    No one will always remember your social death. The only person who truly cannot forget is yourself. So don't care too much about what others might say, relax and be yourself. A real man is the most MAN.

  2. Don't be timid
    If you're afraid of socializing, you'll miss out on the girl you like for a lifetime. If you're afraid of interviews, high-paying job offers will go to someone else. Life is like an arena, luck is just an excuse for the successful. If you want something, be bold and fight for it.

  3. Cut your losses in time
    Don't be obsessed with the so-called sunk cost. If you hang on to a tree, you'll lose the entire forest. If you have a bad job, toxic friends, incompatible partners, you should let go decisively and not sink deeper.

  4. Don't be too kind-hearted
    Don't be too eager to help when others don't ask for your assistance. Sometimes your kindness may be seen as showing off. Because helping you means you can't do it yourself, that's why you need my help. From the perspective of the person being helped, sometimes they may only think you're showing off.

  5. Be kind without losing your edge
    A man who doesn't cause trouble and isn't afraid of trouble is the most dignified. Maintaining kindness and gentleness is a valuable cultivation. But when someone unreasonably picks on you, you should stand up for yourself and have the courage to fight back.

  6. Embrace the period of confusion
    No one is born knowing what they should do. Everyone is constantly finding themselves through exploration. When you're confused, don't belittle yourself or give up on trying. Read more good books and communicate with outstanding people.

  7. Practice repeatedly
    When you are determined to do something well, practice relentlessly. Boys who often play basketball know that the shooting percentage of a three-point shooter is achieved through repeated practice. So if you think this work is useful to you, give it a like and save it for repeated reading.

  8. Find your own path
    Like a satellite, live in your own orbit. Don't pay too much attention to the voices from other orbits, and there's no need to spend time correcting their thoughts. Your time is precious, spend more on learning and self-improvement.

  9. Let actions and results speak
    Don't rush to reveal your goals before they are achieved, and don't just talk without taking action. Let your actions and results speak for themselves.

  10. Maintain a sense of enlightenment
    Most unhappy people are heavy internalizers because they overthink, which leads to bad moods. But many things have nothing to do with you. Maintain a sense of enlightenment when faced with situations, and you will feel much lighter.

  11. Protect your family
    Family is the only person in this world who loves you unconditionally. So boys must strive to become strong. The higher your level, the happier your family can be. If you don't strive for progress, it will be your family who carries the burden.

  12. You have the final say
    Buying new shoes is not to hear others say whether they are cool or not, but to satisfy your own taste and make your feet comfortable. Similarly, when others criticize you, don't be lacking in confidence. What qualifications do they have to judge you?

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