Not for the list - andrewji8

Do not compare with others.
Do not complain about parents.
Do not gossip about others.
Do not falsely accuse others.
Do not say "Do you understand what I mean?"
Do not isolate yourself and immerse yourself in your own little world.
Do not lend money to others beyond your ability.
Do not waste time on winning or losing, and stop trying to persuade others.
Do not try to please everyone, learn to say no for fairness.
Do not solve problems or escape reality with emotions.
No longer be emotionally blackmailed for free, there must be a price for blackmailing me.
No longer establish a relationship against my will for various purposes.
No longer act as a teacher, if I don't have internalized viewpoints, it's better to remain silent.
No longer attend class reunions.
Do not immediately refute, listen to others first.
Do not reply to trolls' comments.
No longer be a bootlicker.
Do not try to change a person.
Stop unnecessary politeness, stop being mean or angry to loved ones.
Stop useless chattering and focus on my own needs.
Stop unconditionally considering others, establish rules first before doing anything.
Stop communicating with people who don't care about me.
Stop rushing to express my own opinions.
Say goodbye to meaningless socializing.
End relationships in a timely manner.

Do not smoke or drink alcohol.
Do not overeat.
Do not consume high-calorie fried foods after 10 PM.
Do not drink milk tea (contains excessive low-quality fat and sugar) or high-sugar coffee drinks.
Do not eat jackfruit or ask about the taste of jackfruit.
Do not chase small credit card benefits or spend time on wool gathering.
Do not have ambiguous relationships with messy women.
Stop staying up late.
Stop unconsciously falling into negative emotions.
Stop multitasking, such as watching live broadcasts and buying clothes while studying Korean.
Do not take the bus after 12 AM.
Do not insist on taking flights on the Beijing-Shanghai route during the rainy season and summer, choose high-speed trains instead.
Do not use credit loans for investment.
Stop appreciating ugliness (meaningless jokes, content that violates public order and morals, and content with poor production quality).

Do not visit tourist cities like Lijiang that have been excessively commercialized.
No longer carry a camera when going out, use a smartphone instead.
Do not buy complicated planners, use a smartphone to write a to-do list.
Do not buy suede shoes or cinnamon-flavored coffee.
Do not invest in financial products that promise higher returns than normal.
Do not buy lottery tickets.
Do not chase after rising prices.
No longer engage in cryptocurrency trading.
Do not use credit loans for investment.
Quit gambling.
Stop excessive consumption.

Do not use the phone to alleviate boredom and anxiety, gradually reduce unconscious phone usage.
Do not use any electronic devices within half an hour before bedtime.
Do not read online novels (causing late nights and avoiding real work).
Do not play games produced by domestic manufacturers that create social currency and vanity through in-app purchases.
No longer use apps that recommend information based on feed streams, or at least do not use the information flow function within the app.
Stop using TikTok to kill time.
No longer use the bookmark button: because after bookmarking, I rarely look at or listen to it again; read and take notes on articles immediately.
Stop sharing content containing personal information without processing it.
Stop purchasing foreign SaaS services beyond actual needs.

No longer pretend to study hard.
No longer deliberately study English, language is more important in practice.
Do not change jobs blindly before figuring out what I really want.
Stop spending a lot of time on improving my weaknesses.
No longer rely solely on enthusiasm to start a business.
No longer shy away from talking about money, be ashamed of pursuing profit.
No longer sell what people need, but sell what they want: e.g. people need to study, but they all want to succeed without studying.
Do not make commitments in meetings/gatherings with more than 20 people.
Stop researching technologies that are irrelevant to mental improvement.
Stop attending valueless meetings.

No longer focus on the macro level, pay attention to micro-level reflection and growth.
No longer pursue perfection excessively, do not put too much energy into improving the last few decimal places.
Stop being attached to the past, stop regretting past events.
Before doing something, do not consult with someone who is not a true expert.
When making any decision, do not focus on sunk costs, focus on opportunity costs.
Stop having a mentality of luck, always see the probability behind things, do not waste time on things that cannot be influenced, and strive to optimize things that can be influenced and changed.